Saturday, January 5, 2008

Another one, and no I'm NOT love-struck!


I was randomly blog-hopping a day before my Econ paper, and I happened to notice this one post on what love means. So this guy put it across really well, left me more than impressed, if I may add.
Now, my fingers can't really resist the urge to leave a comment everytime I read something that's..erm..worth reading! So i put on my typing gear (in this case, an invisible cape and a thinking hat without batteries) and started to write my line-or-two on what I think love is.
But wait! Im in love too, atleast that's what my previous posts say, so a line-or-two won't suffice. I went on to write a decent essayish quantity and in the end thought to myself(without the aid of the hat, mind you) Why not put it up here !

So here, read on...

Love is what youe experience when you read all of this and more, and immediately close your eyes to think of the only person you wouldn't mind snoring in front of, the only person who's seen you through every small happening, the only person who's scent you can detect from a mile but never seem to find it anywhere else.

Love is this weird feeling in your toes,the tingling sensation and how everything in the world seems distant once they're in the bubblegummish mouth of your partner (if you curl them while you read this, you're in love mate)

Love is laughing at the same silly jokes, then looking at each other and saying I love You. Love is when you listen to songs on the radio and picture yourself in it, listen carefully and then conclude that it isn't your song, that your song would have sounds and instances exclusive to your relationship.

Love is what happens to you when you're having exams, and all you think about is passing them with a good GPA, and then waiting to tell your companion how well you did and how much you love him (contrary to the common misconception that people often confuse with love, when you can't study at all, and all that's on your mind is the man/woman you so totally are in "love" with, trust me, your companion in actuality would neevr let you do this to yourself!)

Ah well, love is not a disease, just in case you related it to a sickness of some sort. Love is ideally, a state of mind, a conscious effort to keep alive a feeling that in turn, keeps you alive :)

And now, for the original post that got me into this love-debate...(credits to Hari, http://whencupidstrikes.blogspot.com/ )
When do you know you are in love? It is not when you begin to lose sleep. It is when you begin to sleep with more peace. It is not when you begin to see her face in every other face you see, that would make her so un-special (wonder who ever thought of that weird expression, a friend thought of his muse in his professor’s face!) It is when her face is only a perfumed mist around you, keeping you in a trance for long, never-ending periods.

May be I contradict myself. It is not really when you are in a trance and feel lost, that you know you are in love. It is when you are the most clear-headed and focused that you know you are in love. It is when all her features become the centre of your attention.

The way her red lips part when she needs to smile, the way they pout when she is sorry, the way the blood drains out of it when her teeth bite gently into the suppleness.

The tiny cherry at the tip of her nose. The loving gaze, the swiftness of her eyes to catch every minute detail. The rise of her cheeks at every smile, the bed of skin at her chin. The delicate turn of her ear, the wisps of hair making the sideburns. The small of her neck that shakes as she talks, the bones by them that rise as she breathes. Her neck that loves being pampered by a tongue. The shiny hair that fall on her nape, tickling her back. The gentle rise and fall of her soft but firm breasts, the peace inside the cleavage and the confidence of her perky nipples.

The tremors of the stomach, the tremble by the sides, the naughtiness of her belly-button and the trail of soft fur. The goosebumps that announce arousal.

The divine aroma, wrapped in soft spools. The tough door and the smooth walls. The warmth inside. The delicious wetness. The heavenly taste.

The kissable thighs. The strong knees, intricate toes and baby toe-nails. The adorable calves, the tender pit of the knees, the rise of her cheeks, the rosebud between them. The small of her back. The curling vertebrae. The arch of her shoulders, the tone of her biceps, the affectionate curl at the elbow, the grace of the forearm and the immaculate fingers, the moon-less nails.

The buoyancy of her gait. Her mild chiding. Her gentle breath. Her thoughtfulness. Her honest emotions. The sheer smartness. Her kind words, her true concern. All of her.

It is when you understand that every feature of her is a work of art, an intricate design in itself; that you know that you are not only in awe of her physical beauty, but are also in love with her individual existence.

13 comments:

illmatic_s said...

hmm.....gr8 article

Nioniel said...

: )

phor yu !

Mwah!

Cuckud said...

i got diabetes readin so much bout luv...not surprising i no...i think ur version was a lil more digestable...:P sheesh!!! i duno wht will happen if i ever fall in luv..i think i will change da whole meanin of luv or sumthin or rather rewrite..:P
p.s - i liked the pic fer sum reason!

Nioniel said...

haha
i love the picture! there's something very innocent about it, and that appealed to me :)
glad you liked it..and im glad you got diabetes, atleast now you wont die of heart failure or dementia!

A.S. said...

I not only got diabetes, I nearly rolled over and died. But don't get me wrong, that isn't because your post isn't nice. It is. I guess I've become too hard-hearted. Can't feel no love honey. It's a waste of bloody time and an endless sorce of pain. But I'm very happy that you feel love in in all its freshness and tenderness, the only way its meant to be felt. You're very lucky. And you deserve it. X

A.S. said...
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A.S. said...

And by the way, you are soooooooooooooooooooooooooo love struck!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
:D

Nioniel said...

haha maybe I am :D

ah well...i can tell for sure that none of it is going to waste !!

Ritesh Whitecrayon Jeswani said...

Linked ya!..

Nioniel said...

Yay!

Anamika said...

loved the pic...and loved the post even better...esp the places wher u rubbish stupid notions abt how ppl in love cant study n stuff...
love is the best feeling in the world mate..nothin beets it...nothin puts u on a better high...

enjoy the feeling :)

Nioniel said...

Thanks Vrinda

Been a while eh :)

Anandha Karthik said...

wow! thats a really pretty way of saying what love is in so many words...
hmmm... this really made me think... u know ur in love when his shoulder just seems to just fit perfectly and you know you always have him to lean on when u need him most... love is when u know that when ur amongst a 100 people, and when u smile and turn and look at him, he knows exactly why u smiled...love is when ur feeling down and he knows when he must pamper u with his love and when he mustn’t ask u abt it...love is when u can sit next to him for hours together without speaking a word and yet having said soo much...love is when u know u can say what u want to say without having to think over it for a second time...when he holds you, the firmer he holds you, the weaker you go.. the softer you feel... the urge that overcomes you... that is love... you forget the rest of the world delving into his eyes...love is even when u dont have to tell at all...u just know that u r in love... :)
~SECRET SMILE
PS: nice blog gal